For Youth

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How To Break Up With A Married Man

Many OneLove readers who are in multiple concurrent partnerships have written to us to ask for advice on how to break up with their married partners. They have found that it is very difficult to end the relationship even though they are convinced it is healthier to do so.

The OneLove web site team has sourced this article, by Teecee Go, which offers some tips on how to break up with a married man.  Comments and suggestions from readers are welcome – please feel free to post them at the end of this article. Read More »

Resources For Young People, Youth Leaders & Teachers

Here are some resources that young people, youth leaders, teachers and other stakeholders who work with young people can use to raise awareness about HIV&AIDS, relationships and the risks that one faces when one has multiple concurrent partnerships. Read More »

Myths And Truths About HIV & Safe Sexual Relationships

People believe many wrong things about sexual relationships and what makes safe relationships.

  • Young women think that older (possibly married) men are “safe”. They don’t remember that their older male partner may have had several partners and high exposure to HIV – even if he is currently married to one woman. Read More »

Boys And Multiple Concurrent Partners

“To the boy-child, for one to gain respect and recognition of his friends and peers he must be seen with different girlfriends. It is his demonstration of sexual prowess through having multiple concurrent partners that gives him the social status and admiration of his peers,”  says 25-year old Lebedzani Nkhwa in an article published in Mmegi Online. Read More »

14 Sex Questions For Teens

The technical stuff you know. But here are some complicated questions you should be asking yourself long before you ever get near someone you fancy.

If you don’t have answers, you’re not ready to have sex with anybody. Fact. Zip it up and walk away.

Read the full article.

How To Heal A Broken Heart

Watch this fun video from YouTube on How to Heal A Broken Heart. The video is aimed mainly at young women, but the humour has universal appeal. Read More »