Check out this real story from a OneLove reader who used to be involved with a married man, and has found the streng to walk away. Thank you Lerato for sharing your story with us.
Lerato says:
I was also involved with a married man. We work together and I was madly with him and he told me how much he wanted to leave his wife for me. He also said that he wanted a baby with me.
Guess what? I became pregnant and he insisted that I had an abortion and I went and ad the abortion. Our relationship has never been the same since.
All this happened last year December and I didn’t hear from him afterwards. He didn’t even phone me.
And he in January when we returned to work he wanted to act all lovey-dovey, but because I was also still in love with him Ilet him play me again
But later I began to ask him difficult questions about relationship, such as his intentions towards me, and he was not able to give me straight answers and I realised that there is seriously no future in the relationship.
I was just wasting my time; he already has everything he needs. Why would he build anything with me when he is already building a future with someone else?
When I broke up with him, he thought I playing and I will come back crawling to him but I haven’t and I won’t.
So what I am saying is, leave your married man; he is just wasting your time. There are more decent single guys out there who want the same thing as you.. which love.
