What Would You Do If You Found Out That Your Partner Had A Child With Someone Else While He Was With You?
What would you do if you found out that your partner had a child with someone else while he was with you? Tell us by taking the poll below or leaving a comment at the end of this post.
There is nothing I can do as the child is born, but then I will know that he has been cheating on me.
The only thing i would do is to advice my partner to take care of the child and fulfill his parternal rights and obligations be it financially and morally.
seriously…i would fret..there is nothing i cant stand than a cheater but then again there is this child..i would burn like HELL..i would want to probably kill the husband but all these are just emotions..sooner or later i would have to face my fears…i say time heals all wounds…talk it over and then move on with him if he is willing to change…forgive him after all we al human beings fallen short for His Glory…
Honestly, I would freak out!
Afterall is said and done the is a life, that of a child already. He’ll have to take responsibity and take care of the child,support & be available to him/her emotionaly as well. However it will be a rule that we always use condoms when we have sex from then onwards, as the trust would have been broken…
If I am standing on a podium telling people to be faithful, it should also start with me.That way we can all, in our differensial lives start making the difference.
- Beatrice Tonhodzayi, Programme Officer-Media for SAfAIDS, Zimbabwe
When I decided to marry my wife, I had other girlfriends. That won't change. The only change is that she is my wife, she stays home and I will keep my other girlfriends. I keep it away from her that I have other girlfriends.
A 26 year old Tanzanian woman says:
Maybe he thinks that after marrying me I can’t fall in love with another man. Right now I have two and if a third and fourth comes my way I am not going to say "No."
No Secrets And Lies
If you love someone you will protect and respect them by not having another secret partner. Secrets don't protect.
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There is nothing I can do as the child is born, but then I will know that he has been cheating on me.
The only thing i would do is to advice my partner to take care of the child and fulfill his parternal rights and obligations be it financially and morally.
seriously…i would fret..there is nothing i cant stand than a cheater but then again there is this child..i would burn like HELL..i would want to probably kill the husband but all these are just emotions..sooner or later i would have to face my fears…i say time heals all wounds…talk it over and then move on with him if he is willing to change…forgive him after all we al human beings fallen short for His Glory…
Honestly, I would freak out!
Afterall is said and done the is a life, that of a child already. He’ll have to take responsibity and take care of the child,support & be available to him/her emotionaly as well. However it will be a rule that we always use condoms when we have sex from then onwards, as the trust would have been broken…