Tag Archives: monogamy

Is She A Virgin Or Playing Me? (Updated)

OneLove reader Hilal is trying to find out if his girlfriend is really a virgin and not comfortable about talking about sex (or doing it), or whether she’s actually playing games with him and is already getting sex somewhere else. Here is his story. Share your views.

Dealing With Infidelity

The OneLove web site gets a number of comments and emails from people who suspect that their partners is cheating on them, or who know for sure that their partner has a concurrent sexual partner.

Giving Hope To Africa

“Love Stories in a Time of HIV and Aids” aims to give hope to Africa, says The Weekend Post. Read the full article. Learn more about series, including the broadcast schedule of all 10 films in various countries, here

Is it Natural For Human Beings to Be Faithful To One Sexual Partner?

As a full-time psychology instructor at a community college, the question that I hear most often from my students is: “Is it natural for human beings to be monogamous-especially males given the excessive production of sperm. Why would nature/God give men so much sperm if they didn’t need it?”

Is It Realistic To Expect Human Beings To Be Faithful To Each Other?

Research has shown that having multiple concurrent partners increases our risk of getting HIV and passing it on to other people. However, some people argue that it is not realistic to expect human beings to be faithful to each other in sexual relationships. So Onelove put the question to some of our readers who subscribe [...]

17 Reasons People in Southern Africa Have Multiple Concurrent Partners – Part 2

This is a second post in a series where we seek to answer the  question why people have multiple concurrent partners. These reasons were given by people during our research on multiple concurrent partnerships. To read the first post, click here.

17 Reasons People in Southern Africa Have Multiple Concurrent Partners – Part 1

One of the questions that arise when you find out that your partner has been cheating on you is why. • Why did he/she have the affair? • Why did he/she not tell me if there was a problem with the relationship? • Why did he/she not give us the chance to discuss the issue [...]