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Are you in a mutiple concurrent partnership? Send us your story; share the life lessons that you have learnt with our readers.

Tell us why and how you came to have more than one sexual partner at a time.What are the benefits for you? What are the challenges?

Does your main partner know that you have other sexual relationships?

What does he/she think of this decision? Anything else you want to add?

Or maybe you made the decision to have one love only, and to be faithful to your partner?

If that is the case, tell us why you choose to have one love at a time. When did you make this decision? How long have you lived like this?  What are some of the challenges that you have faced since you made this decision?

We hope that your story will inspire our readers to choose to have one sexual partner at a time.

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You can give us your name so can give proper credit to you when we publish the story, or you can send your story anonymously – it’s your choice. Email your story to admin@onelovesouthernafrica.org

You can also post your story to:

The Web Content Manager (OneLove Southern Africa)
The Soul City Institute
P.O. Box 1290
Houghton
2041
South Africa

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He’s Looking For A Sugar Daddy/Sugar Mama (Reader Letter)

Write to us. Tell us your story.

Write to us. Tell us your story.


OneLove has received a message from a boy who says that he is looking for a sugar daddy or sugar mama to take care of him.

Here is his letter: Read More »

Is She A Virgin Or Playing Me? (Updated)

OneLove reader Hilal is trying to find out if his girlfriend is really a virgin and not comfortable about talking about sex (or doing it), or whether she’s actually playing games with him and is already getting sex somewhere else.

Here is his story. Share your views. Read More »

Using Sex To Manipulate Your Partner: A Husband’s Response

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Will He/She Cheat On You Again If You Forgive Him/Her This Time?

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How To Break Up With A Married Man

Many OneLove readers who are in multiple concurrent partnerships have written to us to ask for advice on how to break up with their married partners. They have found that it is very difficult to end the relationship even though they are convinced it is healthier to do so.

The OneLove web site team has sourced this article, by Teecee Go, which offers some tips on how to break up with a married man.  Comments and suggestions from readers are welcome – please feel free to post them at the end of this article. Read More »

I’m Afraid To Leave My Married Lover Because I Rely On His Emotional Support (Reader Letter)

Join the conversation, and share some advice with Nina, a OneLove reader, who is afraid to leave her married lover because she relies on his emotional support. The couple also works for the same company. Read More »