Don't judge each other's answers. Rather allow each other to say what you each really feel.

This quiz is a good way to start talking about your sexual relationship. You can do it together or separately. It’s your choice.

What’s important is that you make this a positive experience.

Talk about your answers. Listen to each other’s thoughts and feelings and then find answers that make both of you happy.

Remember

• Because this quiz is about your thoughts and feelings there are no wrong answers.
• Use this quiz as an enjoyable way to learn more about each other’s likes and dislikes and improve your relationship.

The Quiz

For me, making love is …
a. something I do out of duty.
b. a way of showing my love for my partner.

I think the amount of lovemaking we do…
a. too little.
b. about right.
c. too much.

When we make love …
a. my partner controls me.
b. I feel equal to my partner.
c. I control my partner.

Most times …
a. it is my partner who fi rst wants to make love.
b. we both want to make love.
c. it is me who fi rst wants to make love.

When my partner wants to make love, I …
a. often say ‘no’.
b. sometimes say ‘no’.
c. never say ‘no’.

When I want to make love, my partner …
a. often says ‘no’.
b. sometimes says ‘no’.
c. never says ‘no’.

When we make love, I like to …
a. stick with the things we usually do.
b. try different things.

When we try new things, it’s usually …
a. my partner’s idea.
b. my idea.
c. an idea we both have.

When we make love …
a. I don’t do anything special to please my partner because my partner never
does anything to please me.
b. I always do things to please my partner even though my partner never
does anything to please me.
c. we both try to please each other.

For me, making love is a …
a. small part of good relationship.
b. big part of a good relationship.

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