Sexual satisfaction means different things for different people. Picture this scene:
Therapist 1: How often do you have sex?
Man: Hardly ever. About three times a week.
Therapist 2: How often do you have sex?
Woman: All the time. At least three times a week.
The intention here is not to imply that women want less sex than men. Instead, we want you to consider that sexual satisfaction may mean a different thing to you than it means to your partner.
And having a common understanding of your sex life will go a long way towards helping you both to be satisfied, so that you are less tempted to have multiple concurrent partners.
To help you to start a conversation with your partner about what sexual satisfaction means to you, use the same items that are listed in our poll. You should also add your own items to the list.
