2 Comments

1. Mphatso Baluwa
   Posted November 4, 2009 at 12:30 pm | Permalink

   This is really scary. One can not know whether ones spouse is having an affair. this becomes so scary as couples only get tested as they are going into married and not when your are already in marriage. How can we help the married couple especially women(wives)? I am really concerned about this and wish that there was something I can do.

2. damaria
   Posted November 4, 2009 at 12:56 pm | Permalink

   There is something that we can all do. We can be faithful ourselves, encourage our friends and relatives to be faithful, show them why it is important for them to be faithful. We can hare advice on how to make our relationships/marriages intereting/fulfilling, so we are less tempted to have affairs. We can communicate as couples, and be honest about what we want and need from relationships. We can be less selfish, and consider the consequences of our actions. We can teach our ons and daughters to value men and women equally. and to teach them to respect other genders. We can stop discriminating against women and making general statements like “men alway cheat,” as if we don’t exepct anything better from them. The list is endless as you can see.
   Here i a booklet that can help couples to find and maintain loving relationships.
   http://www.onelovesouthernafrica.org/index.php/a-loving-relationship-finding-it-and-keeping-it/