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Dear OneLove
I am 28 years old and I have child who is 8 years old. I am seeing a guy who is in a stable relationship with two children. But now he tells me he wants to have baby with me but he doesn’t want to break up with the mother of his children.
And now whenever we have plans he wants to change them always because of her and so now I have reached a decision to break it off with him. I know I still love him so much but it hurts me the way things are.
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Share your thoughts: tell us what you think of the man’ suggestion to have children with our writer. If our writer were to agree with his suggestion, who would get hurt? How would they get hurt?
Also, why do you think a man who has children and is not willing to break up with his current partner would ask for children from another woman?
2 Comments
i honestly feel sorry for the writer but she must realise is that as long as she is in this relationship she will always play second fidle amd i dont think that’s what she wants. she has to be patient (and trust me i know what am talking about, things will eventually work out.) dont count of this fella who wants to have children with you, men dont take care of children especially if its only an affair, that man loves his wife and not you. get out before its too late. i know that you can do it.
its really a pit to see how some women allow men to mistreat them and treat them as cheap material.woman,pliz wake up and let that man concentrate on his family.firstly, he is wasting your time and before you realise it, you will be too old to find someone to marry you.choose to be independent, leave that man and ask god your creator to give you a man of your own.that man is not yours,he is just using you and you are playing home breaker.lets cut the network of hiv