Category Archives: Real Stories

Batjele – Tell Them

March 24, 2011 – 8:31 am
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He’s Looking For A Sugar Daddy/Sugar Mama (Reader Letter)

July 29, 2010 – 11:45 am

OneLove has received a message from a boy who says that he is looking for a sugar daddy or sugar mama to take care of him. Here is his letter:

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Is She A Virgin Or Playing Me? (Updated)

July 27, 2010 – 1:58 pm

OneLove reader Hilal is trying to find out if his girlfriend is really a virgin and not comfortable about talking about sex (or doing it), or whether she’s actually playing games with him and is already getting sex somewhere else. Here is his story. Share your views.

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Using Sex To Manipulate Your Partner: A Husband’s Response

July 19, 2010 – 12:51 pm

What are the consequences of using sex to manipulate your partner to do/give you what you want?

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Will He/She Cheat On You Again If You Forgive Him/Her This Time?

July 14, 2010 – 11:30 am

One of the decisions you have to make when you find out that your partner has another partner is whether you want to forgive your partner and try to fix the relationship, or to break up with him/her.

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How To Break Up With A Married Man

July 8, 2010 – 11:04 am

Many OneLove readers who are in multiple concurrent partnerships have written to us to ask for advice on how to break up with their married partners. They have found that it is very difficult to end the relationship even though they are convinced it is healthier to do so. The OneLove web site team has [...]

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I’m Afraid To Leave My Married Lover Because I Rely On His Emotional Support (Reader Letter)

June 24, 2010 – 1:37 pm

Join the conversation, and share some advice with Nina, a OneLove reader, who is afraid to leave her married lover because she relies on his emotional support. The couple also works for the same company.

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