Category Archives: Ebooks

How To Break Up With A Married Man

July 8, 2010 – 11:04 am

Many OneLove readers who are in multiple concurrent partnerships have written to us to ask for advice on how to break up with their married partners. They have found that it is very difficult to end the relationship even though they are convinced it is healthier to do so. The OneLove web site team has [...]

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Download “Love, Sex and You”

June 9, 2010 – 2:19 pm

Research shows that at least one in four people in Swaziland are HIV positive.  One of the reasons for this is because most Swazi people have more than one sexual partner at the same time. This may be caused by partnerns not communicating their emotional and sexual needs to each other. Love, Sex and You [...]

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How To Make Your Relationship Work

May 27, 2010 – 1:26 pm

Your relationship will work when you have an agreement you both accept. This is a way of building trust and respect. It is also a way of making sure you each take responsibility for your own choices so that you do not always blame each other when things go wrong.

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Download “A Loving Relationship – Finding It & Keeping It”

May 24, 2010 – 11:31 am

Sometimes it can be hard to make sure our partners know we care.  The important thing to remember is that people cannot read minds. If we don’t talk about our feelings, people may not know how we feel. This booklet will help couples talk to one another and improve their relationship. It is not mainly [...]

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Lerato’s Story – Men, Women & HIV and AIDS

May 20, 2010 – 1:26 pm

Lerato’s story, first published in the book  “Men, Women & HIV and AIDS,” highlights one of the reasons why girls in Southern Africa are more vulnerable to HIV infection.  Lerato is being sexually abused, and the sexual relationship is concurrent, as her abuser is also married.

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Download “Relationships and HIV”

May 19, 2010 – 12:29 pm

Every day we make choices. We make big and small decisions. Some decisions are better than others. The choices we make affect more people than we can think of. In the book, Relationships and HIV, there are two stories about the choices that Zanele makes and Dali makes. We learn how their choices affect them [...]

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Download “Loving With Respect – A Guide For Men Who Care”

May 18, 2010 – 1:28 pm

We all care about the women in our lives, our girlfriends, wives or partners, as well as our mothers and daughters. However, it can be hard sometimes to know how to behave to make that they know how much we care.

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