During our research on multiple concurrent partners, one of the reasons people gave for having more than one sexual partner was that they were looking for sexual adventure.
This YouTube video by (www.houdini.com) gives couples advice on how to discuss sexual fantasies with your partner, from the perspective of the one who had the fantansy, and his/her partner.
The video looks at what happens when your partner wants to try something new in the bedroom that you don’t want to do, and what to do if you have tried out your partner’s sexual fantasy and still don’t like it.
And how do you, as the person with the fanatasy, make sure that your partner understands that having this sexual fanatasy does not mean that you are attracted to someone else, and that you are not threatening to look for a secondary partner if they do not want to try it out?
Talk about it
Share your views about sexual fantasies by leaving comments at the end of this post. For example, do you think there are circumstances when watching porn should be allowed into a couple’s bedroom? And how would you feel if your partner asked you to watch porn with him/her?
One Comment
If my sexual partner asked me to watch porn at the bedroom i will except her because both of us we will rearn more from porn.