Let’s talk about some of the things you can do to keep the romance going in your relationship:
- Write each other love letters, or cute or even “naughty” notes
- Give each other little presents like a flower
- Pack a special treat in each other’s lunch boxes
- Share a bubble bath or shower
- Cook supper together
- Eat by candle-light
- Listen to romantic music
- Give each other a body massage - using a great smelling body lotion or baby oil on the outside of your bodies is very relaxing and sexy!
- Make love in a place that is special to both of you - remember, you don’t always have to make love in your bedroom!
These suggestions were published in SoulSEX, a 44-page guide on how to turn your sex life into a wonderful part of your relationship. SouSEX was published by Soul City.
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Share some of your successful strategies: tell us what you’ve done to bring a sparkle back in your relationship.



















