Monthly Archives: May 2010

Download “A Loving Relationship – Finding It & Keeping It”

May 24, 2010 – 11:31 am

Sometimes it can be hard to make sure our partners know we care.  The important thing to remember is that people cannot read minds. If we don’t talk about our feelings, people may not know how we feel. This booklet will help couples talk to one another and improve their relationship. It is not mainly [...]

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A Convenient Source Of Sex & Accomodation

May 24, 2010 – 11:18 am

Sometimes people who travel extensively with work see multiple concurrent partners as a source of convenient accomodations and sex. “I travel to a lot of places, so wherever I go I make sure that I get myself a partner so that whever I have a problem with spending the night, I know that I have [...]

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The Unintended Consequence Of Polygamy

May 24, 2010 – 11:05 am

“Polygamy has two parts to it: the favourite wife and the not-so-favourite. Really, the unfavoured is just as good as the favourite wife, but only one of them is fully satisfied and well-taken care of. So the other one will have to go out and fend for herself. I really don’t find polygamy to be [...]

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14 Sex Questions For Teens

May 24, 2010 – 9:56 am

The technical stuff you know. But here are some complicated questions you should be asking yourself long before you ever get near someone you fancy. If you don’t have answers, you’re not ready to have sex with anybody. Fact. Zip it up and walk away. Read the full article.

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Lerato’s Story – Men, Women & HIV and AIDS

May 20, 2010 – 1:26 pm

Lerato’s story, first published in the book  “Men, Women & HIV and AIDS,” highlights one of the reasons why girls in Southern Africa are more vulnerable to HIV infection.  Lerato is being sexually abused, and the sexual relationship is concurrent, as her abuser is also married.

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Should I Break Off The Relationship After My Boyfriend Had Sex With My Best Friend? ( Reader Letter)

May 20, 2010 – 12:54 pm

A reader asks:  “My boyfriend has been sleeping with my best friend behind my back. Although he confessed to me, should I still go ahead with the relationship or not?” What do you think?

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Download “Relationships and HIV”

May 19, 2010 – 12:29 pm

Every day we make choices. We make big and small decisions. Some decisions are better than others. The choices we make affect more people than we can think of. In the book, Relationships and HIV, there are two stories about the choices that Zanele makes and Dali makes. We learn how their choices affect them [...]

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