Monthly Archives: January 2010

It’s My Culture, SA’s President Zuma Defends His Polygamy

President Jacob Zuma defended his polygamy before a crowd of business and political elite and called for acceptance of Zulu culture, reports the Indepndent Online. Zuma, 67, married earlier this year, bringing his number of wives to three. Another wife died in 2000. He divorced a fifth in 1998.

Help Me Break Up With My Married Lover (Reader Letter)

Hi there fellow friends. I’M 31 years old and my married lover is 33. It’s is so hard to talk to the Lord when you are hurt! I’m confused, misrable and frustated, and I so wish I can wake up and feel nothing for my borrowed man. Sometimes i just ask myself how did I [...]

Love In The Time Of HIV and AIDS

As February, and Valentine’s Day approaches, let’s talk about what love means to you in this time of HIV and AIDS. What does love mean to you? Is love the euphoric feeling you have when you see/think of the object of your affection?  Is companionship love? Is love respect and protection?

Talking To Your Partner Will Help You Build A Strong Relationship

There are so many things that you can talk about and plan together. It is very important that you and your partner are open-minded when discussing such issues. When you talk, your relationship becomes stronger. You also become closer to your partner and you develop a trusting and supportive relationship.

16 Things Men Can Do To Make A Positive Difference In Their Communities

What can I do? How can I be involved? I want to play a role! These are the questions and statements we get from brothers from all walks of life who want to make a positive difference in their communities, says Brothers For life, a South African campaign which promotes the true values of being [...]

Faithfulness Goes Up In South Africa

A recent survey has found that South Africans think their faithfulness could protect them against HIV, reports The Independent Online. “The survey showed that faithfulness had gone up as a way to prevent HIV,” said Dr Saul Johnson, managing director for Health and Development Africa, at a media briefing in Johannesburg on Monday.

Quiz: Are You At Risk Of Getting HIV?

We all think that HIV is something that will happen to someone else, not to us. To see if that is true, answer the questions below. Remember to be truthful with yourself.