Monthly Archives: August 2009

What do the other sexual partners do that satisfies you?

August 31, 2009 – 8:10 am

What do the other sexual partners do that satisfies you that your partner does not do?

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I’ve Just Found Out That My Husband Is Cheating On Me (Reader Comment)

August 31, 2009 – 8:05 am

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I recently found evidence that my husband is cheating on me after I saw an MMS with a picture of the woman as well as an SMS from him declaring how much he loved her.
I was very hurt and left the house to take a drive to clear my mind. I showed the evidence to [...]

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Society Should Take Harsher Measures Over Multiple Concurrent Partners

August 31, 2009 – 8:00 am

“I think it may not be a bad idea if  it [society] became even harsher now[when people have multiple concurrent partners], as the consequences are much worse now, with HIV just hovering all of us who are sexually active,” writes Beatrice Tonhodzayi, Programme Officer-Media for SAfAIDS in Zimbabwe, in an article published in The Herald.
Why [...]

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Let’s Stop Calling Adultery By Softer Names, Says Prince Mabvurira

August 31, 2009 – 7:59 am

Let’s stop calling adultery by softer names that try to make the practice more acceptable in our society, says Prince Mabvurira in The  Zimbabwe Standard.
He adds that it is sad that some economically disadvantaged women are caught in the adulterous relationships web also euphemised as “small house.”
“The term small house, in actual sense is meant [...]

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Bringing Sexual Adventure Into Your Relationship So You Don’t Need Multiple Concurrent Partners

August 28, 2009 – 10:33 am

During our research on multiple concurrent partners, one of the reasons people gave for having more than one sexual partner was that they were looking for sexual adventure.
This YouTube video by (www.houdini.com) gives couples advice on how to discuss sexual fantasies with your partner, from the perspective of the one who had the fantansy, and [...]

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Tips To Help You Talk To Your Partner About Your Sex Life

August 27, 2009 – 10:32 am

One of the issues that has repeatedly come up during our discussion about sexual satisfaction is how important it is to talk openly to your partner about your sexual needs.
Here are some of tips from women who discussed the issue online, and from a booklet developed by the OneLove Campaign partners in Zimbabwe:

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Poll: What Does Sexual Satisfaction Mean To You?

August 26, 2009 – 1:56 pm

Sexual satisfaction means different things for different people. Picture this scene:
Therapist 1: How often do you have sex?
Man: Hardly ever. About three times a week.
Therapist 2: How often do you have sex?
Woman: All the time. At least three times a week.

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